Divorce Communication Plan

Communication plan

In a divorce that includes children the parties need a good communication plan. It is very helpful if the parties can agree to comply with the following:

  1. Each parent shall keep communication with the other parent on a business level.
  2. The parents shall keep personal attacks out and shall not accuse.
  3. The parents will establish an agenda (purpose of the call).
  4. The parents will let each other know the purpose of the call ahead of time.
  5. The parents will arrange a mutually agreeable time to talk.
  6. The parents will stick to the agenda.
  7. The parents will always let each other know they have received a message.
  8. Messages shall not be ignored — a message ignored is a message not received.
  9. Parents shall not yell, nag, over-talk, or try to control by silence. (In many relationships one party tries to control by yelling, nagging, over-talking; the other tries to control by silence. This reaction to each other soon becomes a habit.)